Okay, today I want to talk about this thing, “society man.” It’s a funny phrase, you know? When I first heard it, I was like, what the heck is that?
So, I did what I always do – I started digging. I read some stuff from this guy, Auguste Comte. Sounds fancy, right? He’s some French philosopher from way back. He says, “Where there is life, there is society.” Makes sense, I guess. We humans are social creatures. We need each other, like it or not.
Then I stumbled upon this other idea about the five pillars of society: economy, education, healthcare, justice system, and some other stuff. It’s the stuff that keeps a society ticking, I suppose. I tried to understand how they work together. I looked at how money flows, how people learn, how they stay healthy, and how rules are enforced. It’s all connected, like a big, messy web.
Here’s where it gets interesting, I read that society tries to put you in a box. It’s got all these labels and rules, basically telling you how to act, what to think, and what to do. You know, “follow the status quo,” like a good little sheep. I started noticing these “rules” in my own life. Like, go to school, get a job, get married, have kids. That’s the “right” way, right? I even felt them pushing me to fit in.
I started thinking about the guys who seem to have it easy, especially those straight white dudes in America. They’re often seen as having it all, the privilege and the golden ticket. But then I thought, maybe it’s not that simple. Maybe they’re trapped in their own boxes too.
So, I decided to do something about it. I wanted to see if I could break free from some of these societal expectations. I tried to help some friends talk about their mental health issues. It’s tough, especially for guys. We’re told to be tough and not show emotions. But I think that’s a load of bull. We all struggle, and it’s okay to talk about it.
Here’s what I did:
- I reached out to some friends I hadn’t talked to in a while.
- I started some conversations with them. Just casual stuff at first.
- I tried to create a safe space where they could open up. No judgment, just listening.
- I shared some of my own struggles. It’s not easy, but it helps to know you’re not alone.
- I encouraged them to seek professional help if they needed it.
It wasn’t easy. Some guys were hesitant. Others were more open. But I think I made a small difference. It’s about breaking down those walls and being there for each other.
I guess what I’m trying to say is, being a “society man” isn’t about following all the rules. It’s about finding your own path, being true to yourself, and helping others along the way. It’s about breaking out of the box and living life on your own terms. It’s a journey, not a destination. And it’s definitely not a one-size-fits-all kind of deal.
