Okay, so, I’ve been wanting to improve my singing, like, really improve it. It’s always been a “shower singer” kind of thing, you know? But I decided to get a little more serious. I’m calling this my “Rory Singing Journey” – sounds kinda epic, right?
First Steps: Finding My Voice (Literally)
I started by just… singing. A lot. Like, every day. In the car, doing dishes, walking the dog – you name it. I picked songs I liked, mostly pop stuff and some oldies. Didn’t worry about sounding good, just focused on getting comfortable with using my voice more.
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Getting Some Guidance (aka YouTube is My Teacher)
Next, I dove into YouTube. There are SO many vocal coaches and singing tutorials online. It’s kinda overwhelming, to be honest. I watched a bunch of videos on breathing techniques – apparently, that’s, like, super important. Who knew?
- I learned about “diaphragmatic breathing,” which is basically breathing from your belly instead of your chest. Sounds weird, but it actually makes a difference.
- I also found some warm-up exercises, like lip trills and humming scales. Felt silly doing them at first, but my voice definitely felt more… open? …afterward.
Practice, Practice, Practice (and Some Embarrassment)
So, I started incorporating these exercises into my daily routine. I’d do the warm-ups, then sing a few songs, trying to focus on the breathing and stuff. Honestly, I probably sounded terrible most of the time. My dog definitely gave me some strange looks.
Then I began recording myself singing. Oh boy. That was… humbling. Hearing your own voice played back is a whole different experience. I cringed a lot, but it also helped me pinpoint areas where I needed to improve. Like, I realized I was straining on high notes and my pitch was all over the place.
Seeking Feedback (aka Braving the Real World)
After a few weeks of this, I decided to get some actual feedback. I was terrified, but I sang a little snippet for a friend who’s a pretty good singer. She gave me some helpful tips, like relaxing my jaw and focusing on my posture. It was nerve-wracking, but definitely worth it.
Still Learning, Still Growing (and Still Having Fun!)
So, that’s where I’m at now. I’m still very much a beginner, but I’m definitely seeing some progress. My voice feels stronger, and I’m a little more confident hitting those high notes. It’s a slow process, but I’m actually enjoying it. It’s like learning a new instrument, except the instrument is… me! I have found that it’s really a joyful thing that sharing your voice with others. I’ve learned that it’s really about enjoying the journey with your * I’ve learned a lot from doing this!
I’m still recording myself, still watching YouTube tutorials, and still practicing every day. I might even try joining a choir or taking some actual lessons down the line. Who knows? The journey continues!
