Alright, so I’ve been spending some time on this Mike Lantry story. You know how sometimes a name just pops up and you kinda go down a rabbit hole? That’s what happened here. I was going through a bit of a rough patch myself, feeling like I’d fumbled something pretty big, and his name came up in a discussion about pressure, or something like that. So, I thought, okay, let’s see what this is all about.

My first step was just firing up the old search engine, obviously. Started digging around. I didn’t just skim the first article, no. I really tried to get a feel for the whole situation. I spent a couple of evenings just reading, trying to piece together the story beyond the headlines. It wasn’t like learning a new coding language, more like trying to understand a person, a moment in time. That was my “practice” – immersing myself in his context.
What I Uncovered (or at least, what I put together)
So, this guy, Mike Lantry, he was a kicker, right? College football. And there’s this one game, a really big one, years ago, that everyone seems to remember him for. He missed a kick. A crucial one. Like, game-on-the-line kind of stuff. And man, the stories around that! You can just imagine the weight on his shoulders.
But here’s the thing that really got me, and what I spent time trying to process:
- The build-up: It wasn’t just some random game. The hype, the rivalry, everything leading to that single moment. I tried to put myself there, on that field. Impossible, really, but you try.
- The aftermath: Of course, people focused on the miss. That’s human nature, I guess. It’s easy to point fingers or just reduce someone to a single failure.
- The backstory: This is where it got really interesting for me. Turns out, Lantry had a whole life before and after that kick. He was a Vietnam War veteran. Served his country, went through hell, I imagine. Then comes back, goes to college, plays football. That puts a different spin on things, doesn’t it?
I started thinking about that. How much pressure is a last-second field goal compared to what he’d already been through? It’s all relative, I suppose, but it made me pause. We see an athlete, a moment of failure, and that’s the story. But there’s almost always more, so much more, going on beneath the surface.
Connecting it to My Own Mess
Now, why was I so hung up on this? Like I said, I was feeling pretty low about a project that went sideways. Not a life-or-death thing, not on the same scale, obviously. But you know how it is. You put your heart into something, it doesn’t work out, and it feels like the end of the world. People are looking at you, or you think they are, and the judgment feels heavy.

So, my “practice” with Lantry’s story was less about football and more about resilience, I guess. Here’s this guy who faced immense public disappointment. But he’d already faced so much more. It didn’t make his missed kick not a miss, but it reframed it, at least for me, thinking about my own situation.
It made me think:
- How do you define a person? By one mistake? Or by the totality of their journey?
- How do you get up and keep going when you feel like you’ve let everyone down, including yourself?
I didn’t find any magic answers in Lantry’s story, no secret technique. It wasn’t like he wrote a “how-to” guide on dealing with pressure. But spending time with his narrative, really trying to understand the different facets of it, it just gave me a bit of perspective. It was a reminder that setbacks happen, even very public ones, but they don’t have to be the entire story. It’s about what you do before, during, and after.
So yeah, that was my little deep dive into Mike Lantry. Didn’t solve all my problems, but it did make me think. And sometimes, that’s exactly what you need when you’re trying to figure things out.